How do I test a married man if he loves me or not?

sounds like he is giving you your freedom if he is telling you he wants to wait until his divorce, and doesn't want to inconvenience you by keeping you on the back burner. the best way is if he files for divorce that would show you he has future intentions with you but if he is making no plans to divorce he is probably not going to. they say if a man doesn't file in 6 months after he begins the relationship with the other woman, he isn't going to.