Is it considered cheating?

Girl, wake up and smell the coffee. I don't doubt he has some problems in his marriage. Is it possible that he has children with his wife and his wife is too consumed in their lives together and the children to pay attention to him the way he wants? You are giving him that attention. Of course his feelings for you started to grow. If you talk to someone long enough, you are going to start to have feelings for him. I don't believe he is separated from his wife and I don't believe he's planning on getting a divorce. It's time to wake up and find you a man that is not already attached to someone else.